to those who i no longer have connections with, ie from my old life, that somehow find it a good thing to have opinions about what i write or do not write here: i welcome responses of any kind HERE. or, second best, email. but preferably here. i write what i write because i have come to believe over the years that what is considered to be Unspeakable, ie Shameful because it somehow tarnishes a "normal" facade, becomes toxic to a society....emphasizing a sense of "people like me/people like them. Suffering is Common to all of us. ...or maybe not, maybe some people have no contact with suffering.... But most of us do. If not in our own families, then a friend, a neighbor, someone loved in their community. Honesty, Honest Love, is the antidote. and Telling is a part of that.
So, if you are out there reading and having feelings, please share them here. This place is a Loving Open Community of souls. Put it here.